So that brings me back to the jerri curl wearing, gold tooth having, fucked up speech guy I mentioned in the beginning of this post. If our first glance of him was ghettofied hoodster, and then he walks in front of a television screen two days later, hair in a nice fade, no gold teeth, an Armani suit, and Salvatore Ferragamo shoes saying, “I’d like to apologize for my ignorance the other day. I didn’t see the crime unfold,” people would probably be like, “Um-huh. Whateva. He hasn’t changed overnight. He’s still a ghetto N-word.”

People hate to admit this, but first impressions are key to making or breaking a date, or a relationship. When I first started dating my girlfriend, she was so nice, polite, and everything nice. She did whatever she could to please me. Soon, she wanted to have her own mind, and thoughts, but I was used to her conforming to my every wish. This caused problems, because she completely remodeled herself, and her thought-process to mine, in order to impress me.

Make sure you remain you. First impressions are a BIG THING! Whether you like them or not.