Since the late 1960’s and the Stonewall Rebellion, America’s attitude has become relatively more tolerant towards gays and lesbians. There has been a rise in benefits for same-sex couples and adoption is slowly opening its doors. Neighborhoods are becoming more diverse to include gays and lesbians, and the media is beginning to take responsible approaches to its representation and inclusion of gays and lesbians. But the African-American community continues to sit at the back of the bus.

A debate that continues, albeit a quiet one, revolves around Bayard Rustin, a key player of the 1960’s Civil Rights Movement. It is said he was discouraged from being too public about his homosexuality for fear of alienation and losing support for the movement. Yet his talents were fully taken advantage of. Only now, almost forty years after the fact, are we learning that he was not only a black hero (and key to the success of the Civil Rights movement) but a gay one as well. The paradox seems almost hypocritical when you think that we as black folk are quick to point out all the overlooked contributions made by us for this nation and its people, but just as quick to sweep under the rug or lock away with no key the personal stories behind some of these brilliant and courageous men and women who happened to be gay. But that is also a part of the culture of America. Only now, almost forty years since her death are we unlocking secrets to explain the mysterious death of Marilyn Monroe. And the death of John F. Kennedy will probably never be uncovered in our lifetime. Secrets and lies.