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I remember when oral skills were more than talking
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John Frazier
I would like to believe that I'm a student & teacher of life. At the beginning of 2007, I relocated from NYC to Charlotte, NC. I've written 4 books of poetry and have just completed my 1st novel. I would like to believe that my life experience may be able to educate others by seeing the world thru my eyes. There's always a point of view, & I'd like to add my flavor. I'm an extremely private person, however, I believe that I can speak for the voices that need to be heard. 
By John Frazier
Published on 02/9/2008
 
Just when I thought that I could enjoy the art of someone's oral skills on a cold weather night, I'm informed that HPV is causing "Oral Cancer" in Men. What the hell? I had to re-read the headline, and then I re-read this very informative article. Can you imagine that since there's a decline in smoking and some would prefer to "suck" than smoke, now we have something else to worry about. Thank God brother Mike Stobbe brought this to our attention. I don't recall reading about this in the New York Times, not saying it wasn't there, I don't read the "Times" everyday, however, you would think that this would have made the 6:00 news. There's a vaccine available for girls, and this same vaccine can be used on boys, but we need permission from our government. How long will it take to get this request approved? What are we to do in the meantime?

And since I'm writing about "oral skills", there's an outbreak of syphilis in the United States and one of the places that its hit hard is in New York City, and again, this can also be passed on to unsuspecting partners, you guessed it! Orally. Michael Carter gave us the breakdown even to the point that he mentioned that the percentages are: 37% white, 30% black and 25% Hispanic, 85% of the men in this study are gay men. Unfortunately, there is not always an immediate sign that you have come in contact with this virus and you may pass it on to someone else. You may have a sore on your penis or on your scalp, of which you may assume came from sweating, as this sore could quickly disappear. Then when you go for your annual check-up (and hopefully its quickly after this transmission), you are surprisingly informed that you have an unwanted "gift." What the f*ck?! Pardon my French.

Now here's my third, "Breast Disorders". Now every now and then I've enjoyed someone taking a nibble on my chest. Ok, my nipples, in the art of love making. I've had more than some, comment on the size as I'm a slim guy, but healthy in this department. Now I, and others, have to be concerned about this disease, that according to Katharine Stoel Gammon, in most cases is taboo. We don't really hear about men having annual check ups on their male breast. We are not told to check this area for anything that made appear strange. And when this is discovered, most men will not speak about this to friends and family for fear that this may emasculate or deprive of one's own maleness.

As for this moment in time, we are now to wear condoms even when playing orally. We are to be worried about using our throat muscles in fear that if its in used too often it may cause cancer and the pimple on your chest could be more than just a pimple. I've decided that perhaps I should just purchase some blow up male dolls, buy some new porn DVD's, perhaps an oral bump or two, and become "A" sexual.

The only one who will be feeling me up will be my physician , when I have my next annual visit.


I remember when oral skills were more than talking
Just when I thought that I could enjoy the art of someone's oral skills on a cold weather night, I'm informed that HPV is causing "Oral Cancer" in Men. What the hell? I had to re-read the headline, and then I re-read this very informative article. Can you imagine that since there's a decline in smoking and some would prefer to "suck" than smoke, now we have something else to worry about. Thank God brother Mike Stobbe brought this to our attention. I don't recall reading about this in the New York Times, not saying it wasn't there, I don't read the "Times" everyday, however, you would think that this would have made the 6:00 news. There's a vaccine available for girls, and this same vaccine can be used on boys, but we need permission from our government. How long will it take to get this request approved? What are we to do in the meantime?

And since I'm writing about "oral skills", there's an outbreak of syphilis in the United States and one of the places that its hit hard is in New York City, and again, this can also be passed on to unsuspecting partners, you guessed it! Orally. Michael Carter gave us the breakdown even to the point that he mentioned that the percentages are: 37% white, 30% black and 25% Hispanic, 85% of the men in this study are gay men. Unfortunately, there is not always an immediate sign that you have come in contact with this virus and you may pass it on to someone else. You may have a sore on your penis or on your scalp, of which you may assume came from sweating, as this sore could quickly disappear. Then when you go for your annual check-up (and hopefully its quickly after this transmission), you are surprisingly informed that you have an unwanted "gift." What the f*ck?! Pardon my French.

Now here's my third, "Breast Disorders". Now every now and then I've enjoyed someone taking a nibble on my chest. Ok, my nipples, in the art of love making. I've had more than some, comment on the size as I'm a slim guy, but healthy in this department. Now I, and others, have to be concerned about this disease, that according to Katharine Stoel Gammon, in most cases is taboo. We don't really hear about men having annual check ups on their male breast. We are not told to check this area for anything that made appear strange. And when this is discovered, most men will not speak about this to friends and family for fear that this may emasculate or deprive of one's own maleness.

As for this moment in time, we are now to wear condoms even when playing orally. We are to be worried about using our throat muscles in fear that if its in used too often it may cause cancer and the pimple on your chest could be more than just a pimple. I've decided that perhaps I should just purchase some blow up male dolls, buy some new porn DVD's, perhaps an oral bump or two, and become "A" sexual.

The only one who will be feeling me up will be my physician , when I have my next annual visit.