That was my reply to someone who just hit me up on one of these M4M sites that I just can't get the nerve to stay away from. "No homo" has been replaced by "no fat/no fem" as the top of my Gettin' On My GOTdamn Nerves list.

What I do is simply stay away from profiles that have this phrase tatted all over the page, regardless of how hella-fine the dude is. Get mad if you want to, but I've deleted quite a few messages and probably known as a stuck up whatever by now.

But, I have my reasons.

Now this is what I just don't understand about my fellow homiesexuals ~lol~

We finally get a few black men to stand by us and show their respect, considering us gay men to be human beings for a change, and what do we do? We bitch about them being in the closet, jack off to their pics, then gossip like chickens and spread all types of rumors about them. One minute you're all upset about people in the entertainment industry dogging us out, calling us all types of  f****ts and making songs about us or going on national television to tell the world that they can't stand us, and when a few of our entertainers are gay friendly, you turn them into "closet cases." Now, whether they are or not, keep in mind that the last time we had somebody stick up for us or show us some respect, it was another gay man or a "f*g h*g," so to speak.