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    E. Lynn Harris Dead at 54

    Popular Gay Novelist Opened Doors and Changed Lives

    By Sr. Correspondent,  D. Kevin McNeir

     

    Millions of fans and friends were shocked to hear that best-selling author E. Lynn Harris, who just celebrated his 54th birthday several weeks ago, has died while on a book tour to promote his 11th novel, Basketball Jones.

     

     
    E. Lynn Harris
    1955 -2009
    The news, confirmed by a Random House executive will undoubtedly leave many of ardent supporters lost for words. According to Essence.com, Harris’s personal assistant confirmed that the much beloved author’s health had recently declined but would not give additional information as to the cause of his death.

    Harris is known for his breakthrough novel, Invisible Life, which became a testament for many gays and lesbians struggling with their sexuality and the need to come out to their family and friends. What started as a self-published novel that he sold out of the trunk of his car in the early 1990s, Invisible Life, and the almost dozen novels that would follow, consistently earned a place on the New York Times bestseller’s list while at the same time, gaining a place of reverence in the hearts and minds of millions of readers – mostly women.

    Harris would become a living example of the independent author scoring big after being picked up by a major book publisher. A longtime author for Random House, his titles include: Just As I Am, Too Good To Be True, Abide With Me, and his 2004 memoir What Becomes of The Brokenhearted.

    Harris recently spoke with this writer while promoting his book at Outwrite Bookstore & Coffeehouse. In the coming days we will publish excerpts from that story and the interview along with testimonies from his fans.

    Readers are urged to send their comments and reflections to this writer at dkmcneir@hotmail.com

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to his son, his mother and his many friends and fans.

    I will miss you my friend!

     

    CBS News Remembers Walter Crokite

    By CBS News

    (CBS) "Nothing got in front of the news for Walter Cronkite," says Bob Schieffer in remembering his longtime boss.

    Cronkite, the iconic CBS News anchor, died Friday at 92 after a long illness.

    Schieffer, now CBS News Chief Washington Correspondent and host of "Face the Nation," summed up what he says was the essence of Cronkite on "The Early Show Saturday Edition":

    "Walter loved the news. And people understood that. Nothing got in front of the news for Walter Cronkite. He had this great respect for the news, and the people who covered it and also the people who made it."


    Schieffer described "what we as reporters loved" about Cronkite: "If you came up with a story, you got it at the last minute, you just called Walter directly (when Cronkite was anchoring the "CBS Evening News") and he would take your call and you'd say, 'Walter, we need to get this story on the air and here's why.'

    President Obama addresses the nation on the death of Walter Cronkite

     

    "And he had this great sense of news, and Walter delighted in just tearing the whole broadcast apart at about 6:20 (minutes before air) and putting in a new lead story, and if it was your lead story, your story ... you liked it even more!. But he was the guy that you went to. And you knew that Walter knew what news was and so, you know, we'd would call him and say, 'Walter, we've got to get this in. NBC is going with this story, or ABC,' and Walter would say, 'Well, we've gotta have that in the broadcast.'

    "And, man, he would turn things upside down! It was just a wonder to behold to see him in action. He really saw himself as the editor. ... Walter actually had had a blue pencil that he used from time to time. I mean, he did the whole deal."

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    Dear Michael

    Reflections on the Death of the "King of Pop" from a Motown Survior

    By D. Kevin McNeir




    Once upon a time, when I was just a little boy, I had the opportunity to not only meet Michael Jackson, but to play with him and his brothers.

     

    Chances are, he would never remember the events that led to our "play session" together, but for an eight-year-old boy, it was a magical moment in my life.

    My child care provider before and after school who watched and fed me until my parents or my older sister got home from work, Mrs. Hunt, was coincidentally, the babysitter for the children of the late and great, Marvin Gaye.

    Mr. Gaye lived on Outer Drive on Detroit's West Side, three blocks from my own home. And after the Jackson Five had signed their contract with Motown, which was also at that time based in Detroit, it was announced that the group would be performing at a popular, outdoor summer event, the State Fair. The annual outing to the State Fair was our last hurrah before school doors opened once again in September and it was always an exciting adventure.

    Mr. Gaye was married at that time to Barry Gordy's sister, Anna - one of the nicest women I have ever met. She treated Mrs. Hunt's daughter, Anita, who was the same age as me, and any children who entered the Gaye home, including me, like we were her very own.
    One summer afternoon, which had been particularly fun with little Marvin running around the house and getting in every one's hair, Mrs. Gaye told us that Michael and his brothers would be singing at the State Fair and that she wanted to take us all to meet the boys.

    After a lot of screaming and hollering and making sure it was okay with my parents, she loaded us all into her Rolls Royce Silver Shadow, a car that I liked so much that I begged my mother to get me a Matchbox (car) replica, and whisked us away like Glenda, the Good Witch of the North, to the concert.

    Of course, being children with the Gaye family, Motown "kids," we received special treatment. For example, we didn't have to fight the crowds because Mrs. Gaye just kept driving and driving - on grass and sidewalks and around barriers and blockades that were mysteriously removed as her car approached. Finally, we got out of the car and stood in front of a trailer - and then, the five brothers came out and simply said, "Hello."

    We wouldn't have much time to talk or play before it was time for them to take the stage - that would happen the following afternoon at a party that Mr. Gordy gave at his mansion on West Boston Boulevard, with all the goodies we could gobble up, and other fun activities including bowling, swimming, tennis, basketball and other children's games.

    But what I remember most, both before Michael went on stage and the next day during the party and before the Jackson Five had to leave for another city and another concert, was the sad look in his eyes. It never really registered with me until just recently that even then, despite having it all, or so I believed, more than anything what Michael really wanted was the opportunity to do what I did every day and took for granted - enjoy being a little boy.

    Maybe that's why he built Neverland on his sprawling estate. Perhaps that's why he invited little boys and girls to his home for celebrations that other adults could not understand. Maybe.

    One writer who interviewed Jackson said that one of his greatest unfulfilled desires, when he was still a young boy, was to go outside and join other children, children that he did not know, on a playground and just … play.

    Perhaps now, in death, the man-child who touched our hearts with his uncanny ability to dance and sing will finally have the chance to romp and skip in the playgrounds of heaven. And maybe now he is happy - at least, I would like to think so.

    When I was a boy, we all wanted to be Marlon or Jermaine, Tito or Jackie, or of course, Michael, but I wonder, if I could have really switched places, would I have been able to embrace my new life and all of its challenges. When I look at the mountains that Michael Jackson was able to climb and the valleys that sometimes appeared to swallow him whole, I wonder if perhaps I was am actually the lucky one.

    And I have decided to be satisfied with who I am and hold on to being an ordinary brother from Motown and celebrate the memories of a childhood when Detroit was a little like "heaven."

    The essay above is from Kevin's collection of essays that he is currently completing for publication entitled, Growing Up Motown: When Detroit Was "Heaven."

     


    By Senior Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    Finally the truth comes out, but at what cost? Debbie Rowe, the mother of Michael Jackson's two older children has broken her silence and confirmed what everyone thought, the children are not Mr. Jackson's biologically. Ms. Rowe has gone on record as to say that she offered Michael her womb as she was artificially inseminated by an anonymous donor. This is to believed happened with the third child as well, with a different mother. I saw a journalist on one of the nighttime magazine shows state that he believes that Mr. Jackson was A-sexual, meaning that he wasn't sexual or perhaps only sexual with himself. Who knows? In years to come there will be more articles and books written about this extremely gifted and sometimes tortured icon, Mr. Michael Joseph Jackson.

     

    What I find interesting is that as far as Michael's solo career, there are only five albums that he recorded. It's been said that he has over 100 songs recorded in his secret library. Now I don't believe it was a secret, perhaps it was none of our business, or maybe it wasn't time for the music to be released.
    As for his drug use, his nanny came forward and informed the media that she had to pump out his stomach many times after he mixed medications. And to stop the question, "Where was the family?" The nanny spoke about how his family tried to intervene, Michael wasn't having it. Since he didn't want to be rescued, his family couldn't make it happen.

    I'm sure most of you have been following this Michael Jackson saga, we heard that the he is to be buried at "Neverland", then we heard that the family were having a private service for only family and close friends, leaving the fans with no closure.

    Thank God that plans have been changed as a memorial will take place on Tuesday, July 7th at the Staples Center in Los Angeles.
    It's a lottery of tickets that will be given to his fans. Unfortunately, some of the winners are now trying to sell their tickets on e-bay, some are asking thousands of dollars. Here's someone else trying to make money on Mr. Jackson's behalf, even in death. As for the memorial service CNN will have coverage starting at 12:00 noon, eastern standard time. I'm sure the other networks will follow suit.

    Now some Republican Congress man, I'm not even going to mentioned his name, since I feel that he's trying to become known, on the coattails of Mr. Michael Jackson's celebrity, has stated that he doesn't understand the world's sorrow, since the entertainer was accused of child molestation. However, Mr. Jackson was found not guilty and cleared on all other charges. Yet, I don't think that he ever recovered from that. We will not concentrate on the "hater's" of our King of Pop.

    Rev. Al Sharpton said that Michael Jackson belonged to us. I feel that Michael Jackson came from us, but he belonged to everyone who loved him. "Black or White", Gay or Straight", Young or Old", "Rich or Poor". And he will be remembered forever.

    Love you Mr. Michael Jackson, rest in peace.

    You read it here at GBMNews

     

    By Senior Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    For those of you who planned to fly out to California for the rumored, public viewing at Neverland, for Mr. Michael Jackson, his family has decided that there will be no pubic viewing.


    I would imagine that his family would like for his fans to remember him, when he was at his best. Many may recall that in his last days, he no longer looked like the handsome young man of his youth.

    There were reports early that on Friday, July 3, 2009, Mr. Jackson's fans would be able to view and have some kind of closure. It's been reported that plans are being made for a public memorial. A date has not been set, no release on who will be responsible for this gathering.

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    Farewell To Michael Jackson

    By Senior Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    As I write up this information, thousands upon thousands are lined up at NYC's Apollo theatre on both sides of the street, as 600 people are allowed to enter for 45 minutes, where they can say their goodbye's to the King of Pop, Mr. Michael Jackson. Once inside there's a huge screen on the Apollo's stage, showing different photo's of Mr. Jackson, as his music, alone, and with his famous brothers, play. The Rev. Al Sharpton will speak later during this celebration and memorial. Fans are allowed to write their thoughts on a huge wall within the theatre, that will honor Mr. Jackson. This fixture will become a part of the theatre in memory of Mr. Michael Jackson.

     
     
     
     
    It was also announced that on Friday, July 3rd, 2009, the funeral will take place at "Neverland", the Michael Jackson estate which will be opened to the public, with an open casket. On that following Sunday, July 5th, there will be a private service for the family and extremely close friends.

    It was just released that Joe Jackson, his father gets nothing, he was cut out of the will, as Mr. Michael never got over how his father abused him, when he was a child. Strangely, Mr. Joe Jackson has been granted legal control of the Michael Jackson estate. The interesting thing is that the Michael was in disagreement with his father, most of his adult life. Only recently Mr. Joe Jackson wanted a reunion tour with Michael and his brothers, but Michael was not interested. There was also talk of Mr. Michael Jackson headlining in Vegas. Ms. Janet Jackson, his younger sister, said that if this were to happen, she would love to open for him. As for Mr. Joe Jackson handling anything belonging to the gloved one, I'm sure he would not approved.

    At the Apollo, during the day, as thousands & thousands waited in the hot sun, umbrella's were opened in honor to the King of Pop. It's believed that thousands waited for 2 days outside of the theatre, to insure entrance. Now its raining, still thousands patiently wait to enter the famous theatre. At 5:26 pm, on Thursday, June 25th, everyone in NYC and LA, stopped for a moment of silence, as we, of one mind, focused, prayed and thanked God for sharing this musical genius with us.

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    By Sr. Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    It's only been 24 hours since the world was informed that Mr. Michael Jackson passed away. Most of us are still in shocked, grieving, but perhaps the great gloved one gave us signs throughout his time here on earth, the signs within the last few years of his complex, confused life.


     

    I was invited to an afternoon lunch in NYC, my hometown. The lunch was on Fire Island, a place where the rich, chic and famous, get together to gossip, trade stories and catch up on who did what, while drinking champagne with fabulous friends. Of course the subject that's on everyone's mind is "What happened to Michael Jackson?" Like many of us, this wonderful group of people grew up listening to his music. In many ways his professional life mirrored his idol, Ms. Diana Ross. Once he left the brothers behind he went from star to superstar. Now the question is at what price?
    As he became more famous, the stranger he became. The "Off The Wall" album, where he worked with legend, Mr. Quincy Jones, showed his brilliance.
    It's the LP that also showed his new nose. Everyone loved the new look. Unfortunately Mr. Jackson didn't. With each album, he became lighter and the nose became much thinner.

    Now many of you are probably saying, so what happened at lunch? But I think it's important to give a little history. After this breakthrough album, perhaps the pressure was on, plus he had his own demons caused by his father, Mr. Joe Jackson, it's been released that father dearest use to tell the musical genius that he had a big nose. (The damage that some parents cause to their children should be against the law.)


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    By Karanja Gaçuça

    Pop icon Michael Jackson has today, Thursday June 25th, passed away following a massive coronary at his rented home in Los Angeles. Medics attending to a 911 call tried to revive him, when they found him not breathing, but the situation was too serious and required that the pop star was taken to the UCLA Medical center. The singer was getting ready to begin his comeback tour of 50 dates that was to begin this July 13th in London. 


    He had been rehearsing in LA for the upcoming concert at the Staples center, which is why he was back in LA. It is thought that Michael Jackson's system may have been compromised by his addiction to prescription pills according to revelations by spokesman Brian Oxman, in a press conference issued at the UCLA Medical Center.

    It was also revealed tonight that Michael Jackson was also anorexic. I am currently watching live coverage on CNN, of a helicopter carrying the pop icons body, which just goes to show the enormity of this moment! There will be tributes paid all across the world all across TV channels and of course we would be remiss if we did not include some photographic tributes and a video or two.

     


    By Sr. Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    My nephew telephoned me, informing me that Michael Jackson was rushed to the hospital and now dead. This couldn't be true. Another telephone call, it was my brother with the same information. No, not Mr. Michael Jackson, not our legendary King of Pop. I changed the television channel. I sit glued, watching CNN, listening to Anderson Cooper speak, giving the viewer, Mr. Michael Jackson's history. The telephone rang, again, it was the publisher of GBMNews, he expressed the sadness that he felt, he also wanted to know if I would write an article on the King of Pop. For a moment, I become angry, as the thought of writing such a thing would make this situation more real. Writing about Mr. Jackson would also force me to reflect, as the Jackson Five are from my generation. I hang up the phone quickly, as I promised that I would think about it. My partner said to me, that if I wrote the article, it might help me to deal with the grief. 


     

    Mr. Jackson's life story, his history has been written about. Everyone has an opinion. His musical talent speaks for itself. Future generations will be able to examine his greatness. We are reminded of child abused charges that were later dropped, however it still left a dark cloud. It appears that Mr. Jackson was an easy target, because of his pure heart. As it seems that people with an extraordinary gifts (as such Howard Hughes), burn out in time. It became apparent that Mr. Jackson was in trouble emotionally. He went from being called the "gloved one", to being called Jacko Yacko. When he was out in public, he was seen being pushed in a wheelchair, while his children were seen wearing veils. What I find troubling, is that no one in his close circle, his camp, realized that he was crying for help. He sometimes appear bizarre and he continued to change his look by having surgery. But no matter what, his fans remained loyal.

    There are reports that Michael's situation is much worse than the belated Ms. Anna Nicole Smith. Shocking yes, as we are now told that prescription drugs may have be instrumental in his sudden passing, coupled with a broken heart. The media in the last few years, broke his heart.

    My sister told me recently that when Michael Jackson's tickets became available here in the United States, she and I had to get tickets. Mr. Jackson told that press that this tour would be his last. Many wondered if he could break his own record, as "Thriller", went 4 platinum.

    Shy of a few weeks, the great gloved King of Pop, Mr. Michael Jackson's comeback tour, will not happen as he was called home to live with God. The world will shed tears for this wonderful gentle spirit. He will be missed and his music will be played forever. He's been compared to the late Mr. John Lennon and Elvis but there's no comparison, Mr. Jackson stands in his own light.

    I pray that if there's a hereafter, that Mr. Jackson is able to feel that love from his many fans from all around the world. My heart also aches for his family. I'm sure there will be stories written about his private life, but lets concentrate on his career, the gift that he shared with us.

    Mr. Michael Jackson, you are a great talent that made the world a better place. Rest in peace.

    You read it at GBMNews.com

     


    By Ocean Morisset

    Suddenly and shockingly, the King of Pop Michael Jackson died yesterday, and today, about a hundered fans packed together under the hot sun, outside the world famous Apollo Theater, to celebrate the life and legacy of the great pop icon. Selections from MJ's extensive song catalogue blared from a boom box and fans danced, sang and pretty much went crazy. I must admit, when my favorite MJ song "BEAT IT" boomed from the box, I had to put my camera down and join the crowd in singing the words (albeit off key), at the top of my lungs. Emotions were raw, but mostly upbeat and the energy was palpable. There were fans of all ages and colors which was testimony to MJ's reach as a musical artist. This was truly an event not to be missed, and I must say, helps in the grieving process.

    I'm still in shock about the loss of MJ. It's the sort of surreality that will take weeks to sink in and fathom. I remember dancing and singing like MJ at local talent shows. I never won, but Michael was an impressionable star on young boys everywhere, especially Haitian ones. I didn't have a jherri curl, but I could do a mean Moonwalk! Man, what a loss! The most I could do to commemorate and make sense out of the loss was to photo-document, as I normally due, how the african american community comes together at a time of great tragedy or loss.


     

     















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    By Sr. Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    It saddens me to announce that the wife of the great entertainer, Mr. Sammy Davis, Jr., Mrs. Altovise Davis died at the age of 65 from complications of a stroke. She and Mr. Davis were married for 20 years.

    Bio: Born on August 30, 1943 in Charlotte, North Carolina. She grew up in Brooklyn, New York to become trained and respected dancer and actress.

     

    She and Mr. Davis met in the mid 60's, when he had the lead in the now famous play, "Golden Boy". The relationship blossomed when she joined Mr. Davis, as a dancer, in his nightclub act.
    They married on May 11, 1970. The two adopted a son in 1989.
    Mrs. Davis had a career of her own, where she appeared on various television shows, such as Charlie's Angels and was a part of philanthropic organizations and was also a part of non-profit organizations which raised monies for various programs, such as child abuse.

    However, I believe that her most important role was to be the wife of Mr. Sammy Davis, Jr. When you saw them you could tell that it was pure love, he loved his Altovise and she loved him. Mr. Davis died in 1990 of throat cancer.

    I would imagine that when Ms. Altovise was about to go through that door of the hereafter, I would not be surprised, if Mr. Davis was there waiting.

    Rest in peace Mrs. Altovise Davis.

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    BUFFALO, —Ronald Gonzalez, 44, was aboard Continental flight 3407 that crashed in Clarence Center, New York on it 's way to Buffalo Niagara International Airport. Fifty people died as the result of the crash.
    Ronald Gonzalez
    Photo by Amanda Brown

    Gonzalez was director of New Brunswick Tomorrow, a youth services program in New Brunswick, N.J., was flying into Buffalo to visit relatives. He previously had lived in Buffalo where he had worked for Aids Community Services as executive director of Alianza Latina and also education services director and community educator.

    Gonzalez, an openly gay man, worked to educate gay youth and young adults about health and safe-sex both through his work at Aids Community services and in collaborative programs at Gay and Lesbian Youth Services of Western New York.

    Gonzalez was a National Urban Fellow at The Robert Wood Johnson Foundation in Princeton prior to his move to New Brunswick.

    The Star-Ledger of New Jersey has reports that "Gonzalez was on his way to visit family in Buffalo", according to Jeffrey Vega, president of New Brunswick Tomorrow.

    Gonzalez was born and raised in New York City

    The youth services program, which provides services to city schools, such as mental health counseling for students and their families, case management, youth employment, tutoring, and New Brunswick High School's Parent Infant Care Center, is part of New Brunswick Tomorrow, a private, non-profit organization.

    "He wasn't somebody who had an ego. It wasn't about him, It was all about the children," said Vega. "He was dedicated to helping kids and families that were disadvantaged."

    Vega said Gonzalez worked long hours, and moved three blocks from New Brunswick High School, where his office was, just to be closer.

    National Transportation Safety Board officials are probing what caused the crash of flight 3407, which originated from Newark

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    By Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    While on vacation, getting some much needed rest, I had decided to take a two week break, but upon checking out the latest I was sadden to read that stage, screen, television, cabaret icon, Ms. Eartha Kitt died on Christmas day from colon cancer.


      

    To reflect, Ms. Kitt was part of my grandmother's generation but her entertainment career lasted a few decades. I remember as a child listening to songs like "Santa Baby", and I heard the many stories of this woman of color who survived many of life's mishaps. She was our phoenix. In the 1960's, she was the best "Catwoman" from the Batman series. 

    Later in her career, she took it upon herself to fly to Washington DC, where she was reported as making the First Lady of the United States, Lady Bird Johnson, cry. For many years after, Ms. Kitt believed that she was blacklisted because of this act. The CIA developed a file on Ms. Eartha. She was later forced to live in Europe for the next 6 years.

    In the 70's, disco was born and Ms. Kitt recorded a smash gay club hit, "Where Is My Man" of which the album, "I Love Man" was released. She was a favorite on the club scene and on the International circuit. Later she appeared in such movies as "Boomerang" where she called Eddie Murphy character, "Markus", in a way that was sexual and inviting.

     
     
     
    But life wasn't always a bowl of cherries, as she had a difficult, poor, loveless childhood. She felt that because of her mixed racial parentage, as she was produced light skinned, many family members disliked her. Many times Ms. Kitt told her life story on varies television shows during her career. It's a hurt that she was never able to recover from. For many years, she didn't know her true age. It was only in recent years that her birth data was discovered.

    It wasn't until she was sent to live with her aunt in New York City, did she receive some kind of love. Her aunt encouraged her to pursue the performing arts but the relationship wasn't the best, Eartha left her aunt's home, returned to reconcile, only having to leave again.

    When Eartha was 16, just by chance, she run into a young lady who was attending the Katherine Durham Dance School. The stranger told Eartha that she should try out, audition. Well she did and she won a scholarship. The dance school, introduced the "diva in waiting", to a bigger world. She was able to dream and was able to make her dreams come true. In 1950, she starred on Broadway, in an Orson Wells production, "Helen of Troy".

     
     
     
    Three autobiographies were written, "Thursday's Child" in 1956, "Alone With Me", in 1976 and "I'm Still Here: Confessions of A Sex Kitten" in 1986.

    Ms. Kitt was married briefly, and this relationship produced one child, Kitt McDonald, in 1961. In later years Kitt was her mother's manager. In 1997 gave a benefit performance in South Carolina, and created the "Eartha Kitt Performing Arts Scholarship" for dance.

    Throughout her lifetime, there was this confusion of race. She didn't feel that she belonged. First the rejection from her mother, her family, some of the ills of the Black American race problems from within and the shame of society's demons on race. But Ms. Eartha Kitt was able to live her life her own way. Many times she would state that she was American Indian, other times, half white, half black but no matter the race, she was an asset, a pioneer, a hero and legend.

    On her fan club website, there's a thank you note: "It is with much sadness that we confirm that Eartha has left us. Our heartfelt sadness to her daughter, Kitt, Jason and Rachel (Jason and Rachel must be her grandchildren). I always said Eartha would perform until she died, for aside from family , it was her love for her fans that came next in her heart. The past several years Eartha closed her shows with "Here's To Life". In closing for now, I would like to say, "Eartha Here's to Life, here's to love, here's to you." Love your adoring fans.

    We at GBMNews, say thank you Ms. Eartha for sharing your life with us. We will always love you and miss you. Rest in peace.

    You read it here at GBMNews.com

     

    Eartha Kitt: "Where's my man"

     

    NYC Channel 1 Obituary

     


    Mr. Bentley Dead at 70

    By Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    To many Black American's and to lovers of the classic show, "The Jeffersons" if you say, "Mr. Bentley", you would know right away that the person is speaking about the British white neighbor of the Jefferson's.

     

     

    The Jefferson's Mr. Bentley

    The actors real name is Paul Benedict. His brother found him dead at Martha's Vineyard. An investigation is being done to learn the cause of death.

    He has a complete library of different works as an actor but he will forever be known as the neighbor who needed "George" to walk on his back.

    Roxie, Isabelle and now Paul. Thank you Mr. Bentley for the laughter. Rest in peace Mr. Paul Benedict.

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    On The Passing of Odetta

    By Marc Loveless

    In 1983 at the founding convention of Democratic Socialist of America (DSA) in New York I met the legendary Odetta. She came and preformed and performance with her folk guitar was electric for me. I was captivated and it was so that much of the her concert and commentary was just about directly sent to me.


     
    Odetta Holmes
    Her comments on race relations and instances of human rights were the inspiration I needed. The audience was 90% White so some of her comments were private humor that could be appreciated mostly between her and I. After the concert I went up to express my gratitude for performance and she said to me "I am glad you were here". We both laughed because we knew much of the comments went right over the heads of the well meaning audience. It was a at that moment and as a result of that I commented to being a good audince member of any event I attend.

    Now I must admit at that time I did not know her contributions to the civil rights movement. It was some time later that I learned so much about her. At this learning it made me humbled by grace of living and had been blessed to not only meet her but to communicate with her.

    A few years in 1989 in San Fransico while a student at the New Pacfic Accademy, a training program for emerging Gay and Lesbian leaders that I got to see her again in full consciences of myself and who she was and her revolutionay act of wearing her natural and coining the term the Odetta. I waited for over an hour after the show to just tell her I was still there. While it was less of an opportunity as before she had made her impression on me.

    Her passing today has caused me to reflect on not only the blessing of meeting her but all of those parents, family, friends, and mentors that have impacted my life and submit the following:

    Sometimes I see reflections in my hands of love.

    Sometimes I see reflections in my hands of safety.

    Sometimes I see reflections of reassuring presence that has passed but is not forgotten.

    I see reflections of physical comfort that I will not in this life experience again.

    And yet without that I still find the strength to be true to the wisdom and warmth that these memories bring.

    Sometimes I see reflections in my hands of purpose of what is caring.

    Sometimes I see reflections in my hands of endurances and direction.

    Sometimes I see reflections in my hands of anguish whether you were in your 50's, 60's,70's,or 80's your passing was never enough for me.

    Sometimes I see reflections in my hands consolation of grief and whether it has 15 or 10 years or even yesterday since we were near, there you are in a most special place in my heart.

    Sometimes I see the reflections in my hands of you my grandmother, mother, father, aunts, uncles, or mentors.

    Sometimes I see the reflections in my hands and all I can do is remove a tear of gratefulness for the blessings that I know are you.

     

     

    By Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    She was called, "Mama Africa" as she was one of hero's who spoke out about the treatment and the injustice in South Africa. Her voice was heard, when she spoke of the political and social poisons that entrapped those who were weaker and enslaved. In 1963 she spoke against and to the United Nations about apartheid in South Africa. As punishment the country revoked her right to return and denied her citizenship.

     

    But many times when one door closes another opens, as she was gained honorary citizenships in ten other countries, nine passports and was known all around the world.   
       
    She was married a few times. Two of them were to the great South African jazz trumpeter, Hugh Masekela, who had a huge hit in the 1970's called, "Masekela" and the other great man was Stokely Carmichael, the leader of the Black Panthers.  
     
     
    It's said that she never saw herself as a political singer or performer, however, for many Afro Americans, she was one of the first voices of mother Africa, she was the face of mother Africa. Before her, a lot of us only saw Africans in Tarzan movies. She showed us the beauty and the truth of our own greatness, she showed us the beauty of Africa, the home where many Black American's were stolen from and sold into slavery.

    As she sang her last note, last Sunday, Nov. 9th, 2008, she had a heart attack as she was leaving the stage. She wore her blackness with pride. She appeared to all as a Queen, as a example of how our beautiful sisters of color should see themselves.

    Thank you Mama Africa for your example. Thank you for your truth. Thank you for being who you were. Rest in peace.

    You read it here at GBMNews.com

     

    Obama's Grandmother Dead at 86

    By Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    One day before her grandson could become the next President of the United States, Madelyn Payne Dunham, passed away due to cancer in Honolulu. Ms. Dunham took a turn for the worst after falling and fracturing her hip.

     

     

    Obama learned of her passing this morning, however, he plans to continue to campaign, I'm sure this is something that his grandmother would have wanted, as he said, "She was the cornerstone of our family, and a woman of extraordinary accomplishment, strength, and humility. She was the person who encouraged and allowed us to take chances."

    Fortunately a few weeks ago, he was able to spend time with his grandmother, this was something that she was not able to do when his mother was dying from ovarian cancer in 1995 at the age of 53, he said that this was a mistake that he didn't want to do twice.

    In a jointed announcement, Obama and his sister, Maya Soetoro-Ng, he said that their grandmother died peacefully.

    We at GBMNews.com, would like to state that our prayers go out to Obama and his family during this sad and emotional difficult time.

    You read it here at GBMNews.com


    Dee Dee Warwick passes

    By Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    Dionne's, younger sister, Dee Dee Warwick passed away at a nursing home in Essex County, New Jersey. Dee Dee was 63 years old. According to a release from the family, she had been in poor health in the last few months.

     

             
      Dee Dee Warwick        
     
    For those of you who don't know who she is, I grew up listening to Dee Dee's music. In the 1960's, you had white radio and black radio, Dee Dee was played on black radio. Not long ago, I wrote an article for GBMNews.com, where I compared the singing voice of sisters, Dee Dee's voice was more soulful than Doinne's, more on the order of, like say, Jennifer Hudson.

    Dee Dee had a few hits, such as "I'm Gonna Make You Love Me", which Diana Ross and The Supremes with The Temptations, re-did. And singer, Chaka Khan recently re-did Dee Dee's, "Foolish Fool." There are 2 CD's out with her complete library of her music.

     
     

    She never received the kind of success that her older sister, Dionne, received but she held her own in the singing department. I was lucky enough to have purchased an album called, "Call Me", that Dee Dee recorded in Canada, and its an excellent album, as she did some R&B but also some jazz, "Fool Of The Year", was one of the songs that's a personal favorite. When I have company over, and play her music, the reaction is wonderful, as many say that they are reminded of Aunt Cissy or her cousin, Whitney Houston, or sister, Dionne, as her voice is a soulful blend of the three.

    On Dionne's current gospel CD, "Why We Sing", Dee Dee and Dionne sang together. If was wonderful to hear the both of them sing and praise the Lord together. The sister's have recorded before, "To Be Young, Gifted & Black", and its priceless.

     
             
    As a teenager, Dee Dee, began her professional singing career, and has sang background behind many of the R&B, soulful giants like Aretha, the last Wilson Pickett, Aunt Cissy Houston and through-out the years with her sister, Dionne.

    Well Ms. Dee Dee, you will not be forgotten. Your earlier music from the 1960's, such as, "We'll Doing Fine", "Yours Until Tomorrow", "Another Only Saturday", among many other's were played during that time, and is still played in my home today, I regret that I wasn't able to see you perform in person.

    We at GBMNews express our sorrow & loss to the Warwick & Drinkard family.

    Thank you Ms. Warwick for sharing your voice. Rest in peace.


    By Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    I'm so totally shocked about the passing of Levi Stubbs, the lead singer of Motown's legendary 4 Tops. Mr. Stubbs passed away on October 17, 2008 from cancer as he also suffered a stroke during his illness.


     

     
    Levi Stubbs, lead singer of the Four Tops (right bottom)
     
    As a child growing up in the 1960's in Spanish/East Harlem, the Motown sound was the backdrop. At any given moment, you would hear the 4 Tops, The Temptations, The Supremes as well as other various Motown Hitsville USA pioneers.

    I can recall my mother playing the 45 records and within moments, I would hear such songs as "My Girl", "Every Little Bit Hits", "Ooo Baby Baby", and "Shake Me, Wake Me", recorded by the 4 Tops.

    The song that I really connected to, recorded by the 4 Tops is called, "Ask The Lonely." Even at that tender age, Levi's voice and the lyrics touched me. From that period on, I was a 4 Tops fan.

     
     
     
    Later in years, the 4 Tops recorded another song that I consider a masterpiece which is called, "Still Waters." If you haven't heard the 4 Tops library, by all means, make a purchase. The one thing unique about the performers, the music, the singers in the 1960's, is that everyone had his or her own sound.

    No one sounded like Aretha, no one sounded like Smokey, no one sounded like Dionne or Diana, no one sounded like Marvin or Martha, no one sounded like Mr. Levi Stubbs.

    Also many didn't realize that it was Mr. Stubbs singing voice in the movie, "Little Shop of Horrors", he was the voice of the monster plant.

     

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    Terrence Howard's Loss

    By Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

    In appears that actor Terrence Howard is having an extremely busy yet difficult time, as he's just released his first CD, then he's been dropped from the second Iron Man movie, now he's mourning the loss of his mother, Anita Williams.

    I, personally, know the feeling of losing one's mother, and I speak for us at GBMNews.com, when I say that we feel for your loss and our prayers are with you and your family during this painful life-changing time.

    You read it here at GBMNews.com


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