Memorials & Obituaries

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Teddy Pendergrass dies at age 59

By Albert StummPhiladelphia Daily News   Silky voiced soul singer Teddy Pendergrass, whose hits "Turn Off the Lights" and "If You Don't Know Me By Now" set the mood for millions of fans, has died at age 59. The singer's son, Ted...

Ebony Fashion Fair Founder Dies at 93

By D. Kevin McNeir
GBMNews Sr. Correspondent

Grace, elegance and a keen sense of responsibility to her people are words that many use when describing Eunice Johnson, the widow of Ebony magazine founder John H. Johnson, who died at her Chicago home on Sunday from renal failure.

Johnson, 93, who gave the magazine its name, ran the business beside her husband since Johnson Publishing was founded in 1942 and despite her age was the company's secretary-treasurer at the time of her death. She also penned fashion features on a monthly basis for many years in Ebony.

 

Johnson's husband, John, began to publish Ebony, which would become the company's bread and butter, as an African-American alternative to Life and with its more pop culture-oriented Jet magazine, the magazines have collectively become two of the longest-running black-oriented magazines in the United States.

But she was more than just her husband's helpmate and mother to their only daughter, Linda Johnson Rice, who now heads the publishing company. She was also a shrewd businesswoman whose flair and appreciation for fashion led her to organize a fashion show featuring African-Americans of all shapes, sizes and skin tones.

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The Passing of Robert C. Scott, M.D.

(Oakland, CA) - On Oct 17, at 11am a funeral service was held at the Allen Temple Baptist Church, in Oakland for Robert C. Scott, M.D. Following his training, Dr. Scott entered private practice, specializing in infectious diseases and internal medicine. His Oakland-based practice served several thousand patients, many of whom were infected with the HIV virus and his work days were an atypical, 13-hour day.

E. Lynn Harris Dead at 54

Popular Gay Novelist Opened Doors and Changed Lives

By Sr. Correspondent,  D. Kevin McNeir

 

Millions of fans and friends were shocked to hear that best-selling author E. Lynn Harris, who just celebrated his 54th birthday several weeks ago, has died while on a book tour to promote his 11th novel, Basketball Jones.

 

 
E. Lynn Harris
1955 -2009
The news, confirmed by a Random House executive will undoubtedly leave many of ardent supporters lost for words. According to Essence.com, Harris’s personal assistant confirmed that the much beloved author’s health had recently declined but would not give additional information as to the cause of his death.

Harris is known for his breakthrough novel, Invisible Life, which became a testament for many gays and lesbians struggling with their sexuality and the need to come out to their family and friends. What started as a self-published novel that he sold out of the trunk of his car in the early 1990s, Invisible Life, and the almost dozen novels that would follow, consistently earned a place on the New York Times bestseller’s list while at the same time, gaining a place of reverence in the hearts and minds of millions of readers – mostly women.

Harris would become a living example of the independent author scoring big after being picked up by a major book publisher. A longtime author for Random House, his titles include: Just As I Am, Too Good To Be True, Abide With Me, and his 2004 memoir What Becomes of The Brokenhearted.

Harris recently spoke with this writer while promoting his book at Outwrite Bookstore & Coffeehouse. In the coming days we will publish excerpts from that story and the interview along with testimonies from his fans.

Readers are urged to send their comments and reflections to this writer at dkmcneir@hotmail.com

Our thoughts and prayers go out to his son, his mother and his many friends and fans.

I will miss you my friend!

 

CBS News Remembers Walter Crokite

By CBS News

(CBS) "Nothing got in front of the news for Walter Cronkite," says Bob Schieffer in remembering his longtime boss.

Cronkite, the iconic CBS News anchor, died Friday at 92 after a long illness.

Schieffer, now CBS News Chief Washington Correspondent and host of "Face the Nation," summed up what he says was the essence of Cronkite on "The Early Show Saturday Edition":

"Walter loved the news. And people understood that. Nothing got in front of the news for Walter Cronkite. He had this great respect for the news, and the people who covered it and also the people who made it."


Schieffer described "what we as reporters loved" about Cronkite: "If you came up with a story, you got it at the last minute, you just called Walter directly (when Cronkite was anchoring the "CBS Evening News") and he would take your call and you'd say, 'Walter, we need to get this story on the air and here's why.'

President Obama addresses the nation on the death of Walter Cronkite

 

"And he had this great sense of news, and Walter delighted in just tearing the whole broadcast apart at about 6:20 (minutes before air) and putting in a new lead story, and if it was your lead story, your story ... you liked it even more!. But he was the guy that you went to. And you knew that Walter knew what news was and so, you know, we'd would call him and say, 'Walter, we've got to get this in. NBC is going with this story, or ABC,' and Walter would say, 'Well, we've gotta have that in the broadcast.'

"And, man, he would turn things upside down! It was just a wonder to behold to see him in action. He really saw himself as the editor. ... Walter actually had had a blue pencil that he used from time to time. I mean, he did the whole deal."

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Dear Michael

Reflections on the Death of the "King of Pop" from a Motown Survior

By D. Kevin McNeir




Once upon a time, when I was just a little boy, I had the opportunity to not only meet Michael Jackson, but to play with him and his brothers.

 

Chances are, he would never remember the events that led to our "play session" together, but for an eight-year-old boy, it was a magical moment in my life.

My child care provider before and after school who watched and fed me until my parents or my older sister got home from work, Mrs. Hunt, was coincidentally, the babysitter for the children of the late and great, Marvin Gaye.

Mr. Gaye lived on Outer Drive on Detroit's West Side, three blocks from my own home. And after the Jackson Five had signed their contract with Motown, which was also at that time based in Detroit, it was announced that the group would be performing at a popular, outdoor summer event, the State Fair. The annual outing to the State Fair was our last hurrah before school doors opened once again in September and it was always an exciting adventure.

Mr. Gaye was married at that time to Barry Gordy's sister, Anna - one of the nicest women I have ever met. She treated Mrs. Hunt's daughter, Anita, who was the same age as me, and any children who entered the Gaye home, including me, like we were her very own.
One summer afternoon, which had been particularly fun with little Marvin running around the house and getting in every one's hair, Mrs. Gaye told us that Michael and his brothers would be singing at the State Fair and that she wanted to take us all to meet the boys.

After a lot of screaming and hollering and making sure it was okay with my parents, she loaded us all into her Rolls Royce Silver Shadow, a car that I liked so much that I begged my mother to get me a Matchbox (car) replica, and whisked us away like Glenda, the Good Witch of the North, to the concert.

Of course, being children with the Gaye family, Motown "kids," we received special treatment. For example, we didn't have to fight the crowds because Mrs. Gaye just kept driving and driving - on grass and sidewalks and around barriers and blockades that were mysteriously removed as her car approached. Finally, we got out of the car and stood in front of a trailer - and then, the five brothers came out and simply said, "Hello."

We wouldn't have much time to talk or play before it was time for them to take the stage - that would happen the following afternoon at a party that Mr. Gordy gave at his mansion on West Boston Boulevard, with all the goodies we could gobble up, and other fun activities including bowling, swimming, tennis, basketball and other children's games.

But what I remember most, both before Michael went on stage and the next day during the party and before the Jackson Five had to leave for another city and another concert, was the sad look in his eyes. It never really registered with me until just recently that even then, despite having it all, or so I believed, more than anything what Michael really wanted was the opportunity to do what I did every day and took for granted - enjoy being a little boy.

Maybe that's why he built Neverland on his sprawling estate. Perhaps that's why he invited little boys and girls to his home for celebrations that other adults could not understand. Maybe.

One writer who interviewed Jackson said that one of his greatest unfulfilled desires, when he was still a young boy, was to go outside and join other children, children that he did not know, on a playground and just … play.

Perhaps now, in death, the man-child who touched our hearts with his uncanny ability to dance and sing will finally have the chance to romp and skip in the playgrounds of heaven. And maybe now he is happy - at least, I would like to think so.

When I was a boy, we all wanted to be Marlon or Jermaine, Tito or Jackie, or of course, Michael, but I wonder, if I could have really switched places, would I have been able to embrace my new life and all of its challenges. When I look at the mountains that Michael Jackson was able to climb and the valleys that sometimes appeared to swallow him whole, I wonder if perhaps I was am actually the lucky one.

And I have decided to be satisfied with who I am and hold on to being an ordinary brother from Motown and celebrate the memories of a childhood when Detroit was a little like "heaven."

The essay above is from Kevin's collection of essays that he is currently completing for publication entitled, Growing Up Motown: When Detroit Was "Heaven."

 

Fans Can Say Goodbye to Michael Jackson

By Senior Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

Finally the truth comes out, but at what cost? Debbie Rowe, the mother of Michael Jackson's two older children has broken her silence and confirmed what everyone thought, the children are not Mr. Jackson's biologically. Ms. Rowe has gone on record as to say that she offered Michael her womb as she was artificially inseminated by an anonymous donor. This is to believed happened with the third child as well, with a different mother. I saw a journalist on one of the nighttime magazine shows state that he believes that Mr. Jackson was A-sexual, meaning that he wasn't sexual or perhaps only sexual with himself. Who knows? In years to come there will be more articles and books written about this extremely gifted and sometimes tortured icon, Mr. Michael Joseph Jackson.

 

What I find interesting is that as far as Michael's solo career, there are only five albums that he recorded. It's been said that he has over 100 songs recorded in his secret library. Now I don't believe it was a secret, perhaps it was none of our business, or maybe it wasn't time for the music to be released.
As for his drug use, his nanny came forward and informed the media that she had to pump out his stomach many times after he mixed medications. And to stop the question, "Where was the family?" The nanny spoke about how his family tried to intervene, Michael wasn't having it. Since he didn't want to be rescued, his family couldn't make it happen.

I'm sure most of you have been following this Michael Jackson saga, we heard that the he is to be buried at "Neverland", then we heard that the family were having a private service for only family and close friends, leaving the fans with no closure.

Thank God that plans have been changed as a memorial will take place on Tuesday, July 7th at the Staples Center in Los Angeles.
It's a lottery of tickets that will be given to his fans. Unfortunately, some of the winners are now trying to sell their tickets on e-bay, some are asking thousands of dollars. Here's someone else trying to make money on Mr. Jackson's behalf, even in death. As for the memorial service CNN will have coverage starting at 12:00 noon, eastern standard time. I'm sure the other networks will follow suit.

Now some Republican Congress man, I'm not even going to mentioned his name, since I feel that he's trying to become known, on the coattails of Mr. Michael Jackson's celebrity, has stated that he doesn't understand the world's sorrow, since the entertainer was accused of child molestation. However, Mr. Jackson was found not guilty and cleared on all other charges. Yet, I don't think that he ever recovered from that. We will not concentrate on the "hater's" of our King of Pop.

Rev. Al Sharpton said that Michael Jackson belonged to us. I feel that Michael Jackson came from us, but he belonged to everyone who loved him. "Black or White", Gay or Straight", Young or Old", "Rich or Poor". And he will be remembered forever.

Love you Mr. Michael Jackson, rest in peace.

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Michael Jackson Update: No public viewing

By Senior Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

For those of you who planned to fly out to California for the rumored, public viewing at Neverland, for Mr. Michael Jackson, his family has decided that there will be no pubic viewing.


I would imagine that his family would like for his fans to remember him, when he was at his best. Many may recall that in his last days, he no longer looked like the handsome young man of his youth.

There were reports early that on Friday, July 3, 2009, Mr. Jackson's fans would be able to view and have some kind of closure. It's been reported that plans are being made for a public memorial. A date has not been set, no release on who will be responsible for this gathering.

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Farewell To Michael Jackson

By Senior Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

As I write up this information, thousands upon thousands are lined up at NYC's Apollo theatre on both sides of the street, as 600 people are allowed to enter for 45 minutes, where they can say their goodbye's to the King of Pop, Mr. Michael Jackson. Once inside there's a huge screen on the Apollo's stage, showing different photo's of Mr. Jackson, as his music, alone, and with his famous brothers, play. The Rev. Al Sharpton will speak later during this celebration and memorial. Fans are allowed to write their thoughts on a huge wall within the theatre, that will honor Mr. Jackson. This fixture will become a part of the theatre in memory of Mr. Michael Jackson.

 
 
 
 
It was also announced that on Friday, July 3rd, 2009, the funeral will take place at "Neverland", the Michael Jackson estate which will be opened to the public, with an open casket. On that following Sunday, July 5th, there will be a private service for the family and extremely close friends.

It was just released that Joe Jackson, his father gets nothing, he was cut out of the will, as Mr. Michael never got over how his father abused him, when he was a child. Strangely, Mr. Joe Jackson has been granted legal control of the Michael Jackson estate. The interesting thing is that the Michael was in disagreement with his father, most of his adult life. Only recently Mr. Joe Jackson wanted a reunion tour with Michael and his brothers, but Michael was not interested. There was also talk of Mr. Michael Jackson headlining in Vegas. Ms. Janet Jackson, his younger sister, said that if this were to happen, she would love to open for him. As for Mr. Joe Jackson handling anything belonging to the gloved one, I'm sure he would not approved.

At the Apollo, during the day, as thousands & thousands waited in the hot sun, umbrella's were opened in honor to the King of Pop. It's believed that thousands waited for 2 days outside of the theatre, to insure entrance. Now its raining, still thousands patiently wait to enter the famous theatre. At 5:26 pm, on Thursday, June 25th, everyone in NYC and LA, stopped for a moment of silence, as we, of one mind, focused, prayed and thanked God for sharing this musical genius with us.

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Tortured soul, Mr. Michael Jackson

By Sr. Entertainment Correspondent, John Frazier

It's only been 24 hours since the world was informed that Mr. Michael Jackson passed away. Most of us are still in shocked, grieving, but perhaps the great gloved one gave us signs throughout his time here on earth, the signs within the last few years of his complex, confused life.


 

I was invited to an afternoon lunch in NYC, my hometown. The lunch was on Fire Island, a place where the rich, chic and famous, get together to gossip, trade stories and catch up on who did what, while drinking champagne with fabulous friends. Of course the subject that's on everyone's mind is "What happened to Michael Jackson?" Like many of us, this wonderful group of people grew up listening to his music. In many ways his professional life mirrored his idol, Ms. Diana Ross. Once he left the brothers behind he went from star to superstar. Now the question is at what price?
As he became more famous, the stranger he became. The "Off The Wall" album, where he worked with legend, Mr. Quincy Jones, showed his brilliance.
It's the LP that also showed his new nose. Everyone loved the new look. Unfortunately Mr. Jackson didn't. With each album, he became lighter and the nose became much thinner.

Now many of you are probably saying, so what happened at lunch? But I think it's important to give a little history. After this breakthrough album, perhaps the pressure was on, plus he had his own demons caused by his father, Mr. Joe Jackson, it's been released that father dearest use to tell the musical genius that he had a big nose. (The damage that some parents cause to their children should be against the law.)


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